Most of you know by now that I LOVE sports, especially
BYU athletics. I am mainly a fan of Football and Men's Basketball. The part that may be surprising is that if I am not thinking about work, school, or church, next thing on my list is OF COURSE going to be
BYU Football during this time of year or most of the year as a matter of fact. I worry about how the defense is going to fend against Norm Chows offense Saturday (or anybodies offense at this point in the season) I worry about different injuries on the team or if Austin Collie will step up and catch something this weekend. I eat, sleep, (literally when I dream, I dream about
BYU football) and breathe BYU Football in the fall. Now don't get me wrong, I am a realistic fan, I know we aren't hands down the best program in the country... so I know I am not crazy...Although I do think we have the best coach in the nation... okay I'll stop rambling
Bottom line is I am a big fan and always have been. I know my priorities are a little skewed by going to the University of
Utah BUT it is a good education in Sport and Exercise Science (of course can you think of any other major to suit me?), that is how I have learned to look at it. I like some aspects of the school... but that's a whole nether post. My husband has worked very hard with me to realize the the
U is a good school and you don't have to hate the athletic program at the
U just because you
LOVE BYU. For those of you who don't know they are rival schools. Now I wouldn't say that I started out with an extreme hate for the
U but I definitely wasn't FOND of the school. Now they are like any other school in the conference to me and I just so happen to receive my education there.
This brings me to my "Behavior Management" topic. A friend of ours has bought season tickets with us that isn't so much a
BYU fan. He likes to root for the other team because he thinks it is funny to have opposition during the game. He doesn't know any one that plays on the opposing team, what their record is, or even what the team mascot is half the time.
This rubs me WAY wrong. I am a believer of good sportsmanship and I don't think that this is an example of this at all. It's a perfect non example actually. I have NEVER rooted for the team that plays against the
U just because I didn't like the
U. I purposely don't "
dish" it because I know I cant "
take" it. ALSO, there is no WAY that I would have bought season tickets to the team I was really impartial towards. I know this person isn't doing it to hurt my feelings and he is not a bad guy by any means, he just thinks it's funny like I stated earlier. Now I cant say that he necessarily wanted the tickets that bad to start off with, he was probably pressured a bit by my husband because that is all we do on the weekends in the fall, watch
BYU football. So it was either get tickets or sit lonely at our boring house on the weekends, the same goes for basketball season in the winter as well. Obviously, we didn't know that he wasn't a fan of
BYU, but who knew he liked playing devil's advocate?
Where the behavior management comes into play is HOW IN THE WORLD do I control myself and not get upset when he is ostentatiously rooting for the other team just for the opposition. Last game against
Washington I wasn't on my best behavior and said something to him that maybe wasn't the KINDEST but I don't think it was out of line either. It causes just a bit of tension but if it keeps going I have a feeling I will have a little problem. It is my attitude that needs to change because I know I don't know how to "take a chill pill" so to speak specifically when it comes to
BYU Football. It should be a good learning experience. Also, with the profession I am going into (PE Teaching) it would be advantageous to know how to keep my cool. Let me rephrase, I don't really ever loose my temper, in fact I cant really remember a time that I have "lost" my temper, I just let it boil in my skin the entire game. So I basically need to learn how to take my intensity level down a notch or two and realize it is not life or death it is just a game. If anybody knows me really well they know that I don't hold on to things that make me upset very long. I guess I am just like my grandpa and enjoy a good sporting event. I think this is where Sport Psychology comes into play...
Is there anything that you all do in intense situations that help you calm down? Let me know what you do and I'll try and apply them to myself! Last thing we need is a troublesome situation over a football game! :)
Go Cougs.