I thought I should write you a note because time seems to be passing sooner then I would like. You are growing way too fast. I never understood why parents said that, but now I completely understand. When you are a Dad I think you'll understand too.
You are with out a doubt the cutest little Ty I could have ever imagined. You flash looks at me that are so reminiscent of your Dad that I can't help but think even though you portray more of my coloring and general features right now, that you 'll end up looking more like your Daddy when you are older. I would love for that to be the case since to me, your Dad is hands down the best looking guy on this earth. You my little love are of course are a VERY close second.
Everyday you shock me with a new word or trait you have learned. Lately you have been so generous with Maylee. You even let her hold your train today. Afterwards you looked at me and said "Nice?". I honestly didn't know you knew how to say that word let alone what it truly meant. I confirmed that was nice and I hope you continue to be nice the rest of your life. Being nice is exactly what you did, giving something to someone that you so dearly love yourself, in hopes that they might get a bit of joy out of it too.
You have such a contagious smile and laugh. You are always tickling me, Maylee, Daddy and most comically yourself and letting out a big belly laugh because of it. This morning after you woke up at 4 am, I came in your room and held you until you fell back asleep. I went back into my bed and laid there wishing to freeze the previous 10 minutes in my mind when all of the sudden I heard you burst out into laughter. I got out of bed again to check on you and you were asleep, laughing in your sleep. It was music to my ears and it's moments like that I wish I could rewind.
You seem to be very perceptive discerning when people are sad. You point it out whenever you think someone is sad and most often give that person a pat and say "Okay?". Whenever May is crying you run to her and try to cheer her up. You do something silly, give her a pacifier, hug her, kiss her or do all four at once. No one can get Maylee to laugh as freely as you do. I hope that stays around forever, everyone needs someone to cheer them up when they are sad. You always follow up with "Better?" after their demeanor seems to have changed.
You have become very affectionate lately. I am not sure why that is but I am enjoying it. It's interesting to note since you weren't a really a cuddly baby. You always give me, Maylee and Daddy wonderful "bear hugs" and I hope it never stops either. You love to give kisses, even when your mouth is covered in Go-Gurt slobber. I guess I don't mind them either since at least they smell (and sometimes taste!) of some type of berry.
We went to Costco today and I was smiling the entire time because of what a good boy you were being. You were following my directions wonderfully and making pretty much the entire population in the store fall in much of love with you as I am. You would run ahead yelling, "Come on Mom!" then when you would fall a little behind you would yell "I'm Coming Mom!" in your cute little two year old Ty voice. Stop and Go is all you do, you have one speed and that is run. I think you run pretty fast for a little guy your size and in your little chucks I can always hear those quick running feet coming up on me even though you are trying to be sneaky. You flash smiles instead of grumpy faces to friendly strangers and I bet it melts their heart as quickly as it does for me and your Daddy.
You are such a good example to your younger Sister. You always make sure she is taken care of and even give me suggestions through out the day of how I can help her. For example if you think it's cold, you go to Maylee pat her arm and say "Cold?" then give her your blanket. You ask me to give her a bottle every morning before asking anything for you and you always tell me when she has taken her hair bow out. The latter being the one that makes me smile the most. Often times you go get another one and try to put it on her yourself. You make sure she isn't getting into anything she isn't supposed to and please oh PLEASE stay close to her and be her personal guide to keep her out of trouble through those trying teenage years. You are still protective of her and I believe you feel she is someone very special to you. I am so pleased with the special bond you have already begun to develop with her.
You have been a happier boy as we've started to understand you, it has eliminated more and more frustration on both ends. I love to hear how you see the world and when you point out things or sounds that I don't even seem to notice anymore.
You love church and now every time we get in the car you ask to go to church. You have learned the difference between a castle and a temple and are quick to point out the trumpet on the spires of the temple. Please continue to love church the rest of your life, it will bring you happiness and joy that nothing else in this world comes close to offering.
I love you Ty, with all my heart. I tell you to stop growing up all the time. I don't meant it, but a part of me does. I am truly enjoying being your mom and I think everyday my love for you doubles and some days like today, it builds ten fold.
Keep it up son, you are a joy and one of the true loves of my life.
XOXO,
Mom
Ty and me, August 2009