Thursday, April 28, 2016

Whoopsies

Yesterday was a whoopsies day. 

Somehow a free code I made for a friend to get free bug bands was released to someone. It wasn't by my friend, so I don't know if it was on my listing (which would be my fault for setting it up incorrectly) or if an e-mail was hacked? Regardless 109 units of my Bug bands were given away for free using the code. In 2 hours they were all gone. I called Amazon, I e-mailed  Amazon. Matt called. We begged them to stop the orders, cancel the orders to salvage what was left, but nope. All of it was shipped yesterday and today. 

Not only does that put me out of stock (new order will come in a couple weeks) but I lose my first page ranking since I am out of stock AND as part of selling on Amazon they take a percentage of your profit. So I had to pay Amazon for 109 units to be shipped. 

I cried, I got angry, I wanted to yell and scream at everyone! There goes the money I wanted to use for new tile in the laundry room, or new paint on the trim! I was little teensy bit grouchy, but after about 3 hours I knew I couldn't do anything, so I just let it go. It's out of my control. I prayed about it, and I stopped wrestling and let it go. 

See? I guess I still need to work on resilience. That word keeps coming up almost every day! 

I was able to step back though and see what I really have and what really matters. When all is said and done, it doesn't matter that I lost a bunch of money "giving away" 1/5 of my inventory. What will matter is how I treated other people. 

I can be thankful for what I do have. I have a wonderful family (both immediate and extended) that I get to be with forever. We are all healthy and safe and happy. Those are the big important things. 

Just gotta take deep breaths (not so many I pass out) take a nap, eat some chocolate and smile. 

Being a grown up is hard. 

Tuesday, April 26, 2016

The story of the house

We are under contract and closing soon on a house in Camas Washington. If you want to see the pictures let me know and i'll send you the link to it. 

Here is the story.

Matt has loved this house for quite some time. The owners had been trying to sell it since last June (for a ridiculous price). In October, they moved and bought a home in CO and stopped making payments on the Camas Home. It turned to a short sale last February, with a foreclosure date of April 29 2016. 

In December, squatters found the home vacant and moved in for a short period of time. Because of their blatant disregard for other peoples property the house was trashed. Broken Dishwasher, Holes in the walls, damage to flooring, they ripped down the garage door, took the front of a drawer off, put stuff down the disposal, shattered the shower door, just a bunch of senseless cosmetic damage. Because of this, we've had the home appraised and inspected and it is structurally sound, no problems with plumbing or electrical. It's just a lot of clean up. 

We went to see it the first week of March, we had looked at quite a few homes when I saw this one on the list. We were looking for a good deal, and this one had always been WAY out of our price range. Even now, it's more than what I wanted to pay. We feel though that for only 15k more it's worth that since the home will be valued for a ton more once were done fixing it up. The other homes we felt like didn't have a whole lot of equity in them down the road, that they may be over priced. 

When we walked through it, it was dusk and a rainy day, since the electricity had been shut off we used our cell phone flashlights. It's a rambler and it was the perfect open floor plan for our family.  We decided to offer that night with the seller paying all the closing costs. I didn't think anything would happen since it's a short sale and those don't work out. But as luck would have it, none of the other offers we made on the other houses were accepted so to us it was like, "well, I guess we'll wait and see on the short sale." The first week of April we had Seller and Bank acceptance of our offer (including them paying the closing costs which we feel like was extra lucky). The foreclosure was postponed pending a closing date before the 23rd of May. I still wasn't sure about the home until we had all the inspections and appraisals done. Now I am feeling better about it. I KNOW it'll be a TON of work, time and money to get everything up to my standards. 

The tricky part is we can not get a regular loan on the home. No one will lend for a fixer upper. So we've had to get a special loan called a 203k Streamline loan to include paying a contractor to fix certain things to get the home up to FHA standards. That has been a very frustrating process because 90% of the things we're paying a contractor to do, we can do ourselves and it would cost a ton less saving on labor. So we're having the contractor do the bare bones get in and get out so we can start our stuff. Over the next couple years we plan on re-doing the flooring, painting the whole thing inside and out, re-landscaping some in both the back and the front, beefing up the exterior a little etc etc. We'll probably be comfortable by Christmas (real wood burning fireplace can't wait to cozy up to that with the kids on Christmas Eve) but have all our plans complete in about 2 years. 

The part we love about the home is the huge master closet and bathroom. All of the homes we'd walked through up to that point had the Master bath as the smallest bathroom. Also, we love the yard! It's about 2/3 acre with a smaller front yard, so the back yard is huge. We want to eventually do a fire pit, a man cave (shed) for Matt, we want to add a built in BBQ. The sky is the limits with the home and that's what we love. It can be as basic or as nice as we want it to be and can really be a forever home for us. Will it be? Who knows, what I do know is that this is where God wants us.  He has answered all our prayers and provided a way for us to be back together as a family soon. We are really looking forward to that time. You know what they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder. 

Sunday, April 24, 2016

Instagram Fun


via Instagram http://ift.tt/1XQ6eyS I helped out in Maylee's Sunday school class today. We talked about things that we can do to make Jesus and Heavenly Father happy or sad. Maylee said "when my mommy is grouchy" my companion teacher said, "That does make Jesus sad when Moms are grouchy, Maylee what can you do to make your Mommy happy?" Maylee's friend Charlotte interjects, "you can clean your room!" Charlotte knows how's to make this mom happy. It was a lovely day at church today. #HisDay

Saturday, April 23, 2016

Instagram Fun


via Instagram http://ift.tt/1qIl3sn Weekends with my main squeeze in town make me happy. The kids are thrilled to see Daddy too. Our closing date can't come soon enough. #familiesareforever #bettertogether

Thursday, April 21, 2016

Jamaica Picture Dump

Trouble is, when you have two cameras is it's difficult to post a blog, it becomes disjointed. So, a bunch of pictures out of order will have to do.


 This was the pool at the resort where we stayed. We were worried since the forecast said rainy the whole time we were there. It hardly rained, only when Matt and Preston attempted to go golfing. HA! That was a fun story. They golfed in a downpour the first 9 holes then decided to stop and not continue the rest of the course. About 5 minutes later the rain stopped. They had to sit for 2 hours and wait at the course for the bus to come pick them up. Suzanne and I booked our other excursions and read our books on the beach while we waited for Matt and Preston.

 We we to Mystic Mountain the first day. The scenery was really pretty. The workers there reminded us this was 700 ft above sea level so it was quite a climb. 700 ft. pfft.

The Bobsled was really fun. Matt and I went together and Preston and Suzanne went together.




 At the end one had a chance to swim in the pool above the bay. It was really pretty but we didn't swim, we didnt really have time plus Matt was a little hangry at that point.



 The next day we went on the Dunn's River Falls Shopping tour. They took us to a small market to buy a few handmade things, then they took us to a duty free shopping plaza. I was on the hunt for vanilla for my mom. I didn't find any white vanilla. I could find caramel color, and dark, but no white. That is what my mom wanted. I told the tour guide "Lady D' about it, she called me vanilla the rest of the day and even had the bus driver stop off at the grocery store in town (like where she goes grocery shopping) to buy white (more like clear) vanilla. We found some, it was only 2 dollars. At all the tourist shops it was between $7-11. That reminds me. Jamaica isn't cheap. They practically chase you down and BEG for tips, for anything and everything.   When we went to Guatemala everything was really cheap, like under 5 bucks. Here everything was $20 and you had to talk them down. Well Matt feels bad for the people there so he didn't haggle very much. So I had to tell myself it was $5 for the item and the rest was to charity.

We went to Konoko Falls and Gardens. It was really pretty there. We had a tour guide there that rushed up through everything. I wish I could have taken a little more time, but it was okay.

There was a funny part where almost every flower show pointed out she said was related to the Banana Family. She would say, "This is the bird of paradise flower, red orange and yellow, it's used in floral arrangements and is a member of the banana family." So for the next few days we'd point to a random something and tell eachother it was a member of the banana family.

 The view from the courtyard was lovely!
 Our last stop was the Dunns River Falls. We thought we were booking on a day where there weren't any cruise lines... uhhh nope. It was crazy busy. It was a touristy thing, you know those things you just have to do once but I would never do again. The falls were completely cemented over so it wasn't "natural". We all got a good laugh about it. We were supposed to hold hands all the way up. Of course Matt is a rebel and let go right away and kind of blazed his own trail in the very back of the line.
 It was still pretty fun though, being with Suzanne, Matt and Preston always make something fun.



 Matt and Preston were doing 'sexy' waterfall photos. HAHA


 All these pictures were taken with Kelly and Nate's waterproof camera. It was so nice to carry it around to all our excursions and not worry about our other cameras getting wet. Matt even took it underwater to see if it worked. Yep, it works.




So there are the first bit of pictures. There are more i'll post soon.

Tuesday, April 12, 2016

Instagram Fun


via Instagram http://ift.tt/1VmUCpm Sun soaking and missing our babies. #10yearsofus

Monday, April 11, 2016

Instagram Fun


via Instagram http://ift.tt/22pTrnR The bobsled team. #10yearsofus #twinforlife #wowmetravel

Instagram Fun


via Instagram http://ift.tt/1Mqr1bF On our way to bobsled and zip line. #10yearsofus #twinforlife #wowmetravel

Sunday, April 10, 2016

Instagram Fun


via Instagram http://ift.tt/1YnJgPm Celebrating #nationalsiblingsday with my favorite twin sister, reading on the beach in Jamaica while our husbands paddle board and kayak their hearts out. #SFgiants #twinforlife

Saturday, April 9, 2016

Instagram Fun


via Instagram http://ift.tt/22kSkpk We made it to Jamaica! Time to celebrate. #10yearsofus

Friday, April 8, 2016

Instagram Fun


via Instagram http://ift.tt/1MlLb6w Next stop, Jamaica! (Okay, next stop Minnesota but then after that Jamaica) #10yearsofus

Thursday, April 7, 2016

Instagram Fun


via Instagram http://ift.tt/1WfHG3H The girls and I took a field trip to visit Grandpa's work. They instinctively did the same thing I did when I was a child. They walked in the huge building then younger two shrieked like Pterodactyls to hear what it sounded like then ran down the hallway to Grandpas office. Talk about a throwback. #medfordlife